As someone who has a history if complaining about “randomer”, I have to agree. The term “randomer” has become a sort of pejorative and meaningless negative word. A bit like a slur.
In the most literal terms, every randomer that we’ve come across, will have perceived us as being a randomer too purely because we don’t know them, or are not friends with them, or they joined our lobby (or the other way around) which was open to the public.
It’s a bit like the term “noob” which is supposed to mean “newbie” - as in someone new to the game. But over the years has become a slur meaning “someone who is bad at the game”.
Anyway, that’s me done with words and definitions…