Campaign co-op kicked while loading chapter

My brother and I were playing the start on co-op on insane, we got to the start of This is war we died before we even had time to react. When it loaded the checkpoint we were stuck with everything white and instantly die and over and over

So we decided to start this is war fresh, but now only the host gets in, and the second player is booted everytime (timed out)

Swapped host but still same result, even the earlier chapters do the same thing. Anyone have any ideas because I’m seriously losing my patience with this joke of a game

Cant even join other players games. Either game no longer exists or I’m not connected to gears services. Sort this crap out TC